VARIOUS WEDDING ANNIVERSARY PROJECTS

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THIS IS FOR ALL THE WEDDING ANNIVERSARY POEM THAT OUR WONDERFUL POETS HAVE WRITTEN.

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50TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEAS & POEMS

Date Posted: 21:51:34 02/12/04 Thu
Author: Christine
Subject: Another 50th Anniversary Gift Idea

I have tied some pretty gold ribbon around a small fish bowl that contained 2 real goldfish for the couple. Maybe someone here could come up with a cute poem to go with this inexpensive, fun gift!

Re: Another 50th Anniversary Gift Idea -- Caboobie, 19:12:34 02/13/04 Fri [1]

I couldn't think just what to give
Though I tried in many ways
But then it came into my mind
A gift to brighten up your days

Two Gold fish in a little bowl
I hope they'll make you see
How much love is yours today
On your Golden Anniversary
(c) 0204 Yvonne Lowther

Re: Another 50th Anniversary Gift Idea -- jacksmum, 21:09:43 02/13/04 Fri [1]

As always Yvonne ---- PERFECT!
They will love the gift and poem.
Sue

Re: Another 50th Anniversary Gift Idea -- Christine (Memphis), 22:38:37 02/13/04 Fri [1]

Yvonne.... you're the BEST!!! Do you have any idea how many of us envy you (and several others around here) for your poetic talent? I am in awe not only of your special ability with words, but how generous you are of your time... thanks for helping us out so often!

Re: Another 50th Anniversary Gift Idea -- Christine (Memphis), 21:55:02 02/12/04 Thu [1]

Ooooooops! Forgot to mention this idea also could be used to decorate for the anniversary party.... place brandy snifters holding pair of goldfish as centerpieces on the tables.
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Date Posted: 12:40:27 04/22/03 Tue
Author: Crafty432003
Subject: Help! 50th Wedding Ann. Gift.

[> Re: Help! 50th Wedding Ann. Gift. -- Crafty432003, 14:31:45 04/22/03 Tue [1]

Not sure what happened to the orginal message. What I had intended to post was a request for help for a crafty 50th wedding anniversay gift. I was just invited to a party on Saturday!!! Pressure is on!! Thanks.

[> Re: Help! 50th Wedding Ann. Gift. -- Twinrme, 15:32:56 04/22/03 Tue [1]

You haven't said what the happy couple might want or have. Why not make a candy bouquet, try and find gold wrapped candy, & you can even get gift cetificates, curl them up like a scroll, and insert them into the bouquet. You could take pics of their original wedding photo, and a current pic & put that on their wrappers. If you can get details about their wedding, ex: location, church name etc....you can include this too. For a cotainer you could go as fancy as a crystal vase, or as goofy as a paint can..you can make a label for that to. Go to the albums and check out gingergirls great anniversary tin she's made. I'm sure you'll get plenty of ideas from the gurls here!!! :0)

[> Re: Help! 50th Wedding Ann. Gift. -- Christine, 15:39:13 04/22/03 Tue [1]

One of my favorite things to do is fill a pretty clear bowl with water, add 2 goldfish (lovers of course!), add a pretty golden bow and card. Voila! a unique, quick, inexpensive gift the couple can enjoy.
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Date Posted: 16:34:57 06/24/04 Thu
Author: Flo
Subject: 50th wedding anniversary

My husband and I are going to celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary on Aug 21th. Anybody know what I can give to him that would be unique? I thought maybe a poem I could frame,or any other Ideas anyone might have.Thanks so much,Flo

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[> Re: 50th wedding anniversary -- jenjoy, 20:19:10 06/24/04 Thu [1]

Your 50th! That's awesome Flo! Congratulations!!!! If you do decide to do a poem I would recommend you really communicate all of the special things you want to say in the poem to the poet(s). Share memories or details and ideas. It could be really beautiful and I know there are several poets here that could help you out. What about a photo album "through the years" or "50 years of love".

For 50 years I've loved you
You're such a part of me
Through the ups and downs
And every memory... (etc, etc...and so on)

or

My true love lives within
Each waking memory
The ones we've shared together
And all there is to be...(etc, etc)

Congratulations!!!!! I've got 29 years to go before I can celebrate my 50th! I can't wait
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Date Posted: 07:07:13 06/25/04 Fri
Author: Barb
Subject: Does anyone remember?

Does anyone remember the poem for the 50th anniversary in which you have different articles for. I have the one with the candy but I thought there was a different one. Thanks

[> Re: Does anyone remember? -- POOKIE, 02:31:30 06/26/04 Sat [1]

These are the Survival Kits I have for 50th. I hope this is what you are looking for.....

50TH ANNIVERSAY SURVIVAL KIT
*Snickers-to remind you of all the laughs you had together.
*Band-aid-a reminder of the tough times, and how you remedied them.
*Date Book-to remind you of all the "Special days" in your life.
*Glitter-to keep the sparkle in your life.
*Peanuts-after 50 years, a reminder that you can get a little nutty.
*Rubber band-a reminder to stay flexible.
*50 pennies-a reminder of the good "cents" you had to keep a marriage together for all those years
*Marbles-to replace any you may have lost along the way.
*Hugs and Kisses-because you deserve them.
*Gold coins-(chocolate) to remind you of your Golden Anniversary.
*Rainbow-a reminder that there is more happiness in store.
*Smiley Face- reminder to keep smiling.

Fifty years of wedded bliss
You deserve a great big kiss
A hug or two are also here.
Congratulations to the lucky pair
Best Wishes are in store
How ‘bout trying for 50 more.
Happy Anniversary!

50TH ANNIVERSAY SURVIVAL KIT
*Candle- for "lighting up" each other's life.
*Confetti - to celebrate your special day.
*Cotton Balls- to help soften the rough times.
*Crayon- to "color" your days bright and sunny.
*Date Book-to remind you of all the "Special days" in your life.
*Dog bones - We are all "doggone" happy to help you celebrate this special anniversary.
*Dove "Promises"- for your promise to love, cherish and honor each other.
*Eraser- to remind you that every day you can start with a clean slate.
*Good & Plenty - may you always remember the "good" times and may you have "plenty" of them.
*Marbles - to replace the ones you lost through the years.
*Match- because you are a perfect "match".
*Memory game -May you always cherish all the wonderful memories you have together.
*A pack of gum- you "chews" each other for life.
*Paper Clip- to help keep things together.
*Peanuts - to remind you that things can get a little nutty.
*Peppermint Patty- for the "cool sensations" you give each other.
*A Poem - to share the beauty of words.
*Popcorn- We "popped in" to wish you a happy anniversary
*Seeds - may your love grow stronger, happier and even more wonderful with each passing year.
*Gold Bell - to celebrate your "Golden" anniversary
*Skittles- for the rainbow of excitement you share.
*Snickers-to remind you of all the laughs you had together.
*Starburst- to give you a "burst" of energy on the days you don't have any.
*Sweetarts- because you are each other "sweethearts".
*Globe- we all think the "world" of you.
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Date Posted: 00:08:54 02/12/04 Thu
Author: ellen
Subject: 50th anniversary gift

I recently made a fleece blanket the ones that are about 1-1 1/2 yard big then cut at all sides & tied into knots. then added pictures of the couple at various stages of their wedding life. I scanned them, then printed on cloth bought at a craft store & ironed them on. It was the hit of the party they even hung it on the wall behind their cake! So it came out in almost all their photos.I also did sheets on computer & printed on same iron on material with their kids name & their grandkids & so on so each sheet( had the kids name, their kids & grandkids if applicable.
Note I made it w/o the kid's spouse's names because of multiple marriages but you could include if you'd like. It was very personal & very well loved!

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[> Re: 50th anniversary gift -- jacksmum, 01:19:32 02/12/04 Thu [1]

Ellen that's a lovely idea and something they will always treasure.
Thank you for sharing.
Sue
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Date Posted: 01:02:18 06/30/04 Wed
Author: Tona
Subject: Help poets! Need anniversary verse

Hello poets, all of you are so talented I know someone will be able to help with this one. Need a verse for a special 50th anniversary--one in which the spouse has already passed on. The family doesn't want to let it just pass by and need something they can make into a card.
Thanks a lot. Tona

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[> Re: Help poets! Need anniversary verse -- jenjoy, 01:46:28 06/30/04 Wed [1]

Oh, this is such a sweet story. How long have they been seperated? What a very sweet gesture to acknowledge and remember their 50th like that! Here' a poem that came to mind - I don't know if this is what you were looking for though...

Remembering What Would Have Been 50th Anniversary

It may seem just like yesterday, but it’s been 50 years
The day two special people vowed to share their joy and tears
As man and wife they shared their life, and always they did cling
Until the day one went away upon an angel’s wing
But love is strong and now their song on which their heart’s depend
Keeping beat with memories sweet until they meet again
(by:Jennifer Byerly (C))

[> Re: Help poets! Need anniversary verse -- Caboobie, 03:14:53 06/30/04 Wed [1]
This is lovely Jennifer, it really touches the heart.
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Date Posted: 18:39:59 06/30/04 Wed
Author: Sally
Subject: 50th Wedding Anniversary

Looking for ideas for my parents' 50th wedding anniversary. Any ideas for party favors that are easy to make? What about decorations? I am planning on making some scrapbooks of their lives together. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Sally

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[> Re: 50th Wedding Anniversary -- Caboobie, 19:17:53 06/30/04 Wed [1]

Fifty Years is Golden so how about some gold foil wrapped sweets. Maybe some gold candles or anything wlse golden coloured. You could even wrap up their present in gold paper. I wrote this a while ago, maybe it will help.

Fifty years ago they both made a promise
To stay with each other for life
They looked at each other and then made a pledge
To become a good husband and wife
Now those years have gone by, oh so quickly
And these two have proved to all the rest
That if you stay true, then the future for you
Will be wonderful, happy and blessed.

(c) Yvonne Lowther 1103

[> Re: 50th Wedding Anniversary -- Tona, 00:13:32 07/01/04 Thu [1]

Sally, ask their friends and family to write down a story or something they remember about the couple. Then put those stories in the scrapbooks you are making. It will be something they will enjoy forever. Tona

[> Re: 50th Wedding Anniversary -- Sally, 10:59:29 07/01/04 Thu [1]

Thanks so much for the ideas! These are great! I'm starting early as their anniversary is not until March. Thanks again!
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50th Anniversary Poems

Date Posted: 11:05:29 01/06/05 Thu
Author: Lisa in ns
Subject: Yohoo! Caboobie! Can u help?

Hi Yvonne,
I'm wondering if you might help me again....I'm sorry to keep bugging you.
I was wondering if you might be able to come up with a short poem for me. It's for my aunt and uncles 50 th wedding anniversary.I'm thinking of making a bookmark type of favour for their party.
It was a double wedding,they were married on April 11,1955 so it's their 50th this year.
My uncle and aunts names are Lawrence and Eleanor,they were married with another couple,Paul and Margaret.
Lawrence and Margaret are brother and sister,that's why the double wedding.
Other than that i don't have any other info.
Any help would be greatly appriciated.
Hugs
Lisa in NS
PS- if I can ever help you with anything please let me know,you've been so helpful to me

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Re: Yohoo! Caboobie! Can u help? -- Caboobie, 08:03:54 01/07/05 Fri [1]

Lisa will you e-mail me please. Heres another attempt for you.

POEM

Was it really fifty years ago
They all stood side by side
When Lawrence and Paul
Took Margaret and Eleanor
To be their blushing brides

On April 11th 1955
They made vows to go through their lives
A brother and sister
With their partners, soon
To become new husbands and wives

Fifty years on they’ve proved to the world
That it’s possible to be happy and true
So on their Golden anniversary day
All that’s left to say
Is thanks, for being here too
© 2005 Yvonne Lowther

Re: Yohoo! Caboobie! Can u help? -- Caboobie, 11:49:22 01/06/05 Thu [1]

I did this one a while ago, maybe it will help. I'll try to think of another as well. Are the other couple still together.

POEM
Fifty years ago they both made a promise
To stay with each other for life
They looked at each other and then made a pledge
To become a good husband and wife
Now those years have gone by oh so quickly
And these two have proved to all the rest
That if you stay true, then the future for you
Will be wonderful, happy and blessed.
© 2003 Yvonne Lowther

Re: Yohoo! Caboobie! Can u help? -- Lisa in ns, 15:48:52 01/06/05 Thu [1]

Hi Yvonne,
Thanks for the quick reply.The other couple is still together and this party will be for the 4 of them.
Hugs Lisa

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40TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY GIFT, IDEAS & LINKS

Date Posted: 18:02:51 03/26/04 Fri
Author: Wendy
Subject: 40th wedding anniversary ideas

Does anyone have any ideas or poems for a 40th wedding anniversary. My parents 40th is on Easter and my dad is in the hospital. We are all praying he can be home for Easter but it doesn't look like that will happen. I am planning a celebration for later in the summer but wanted to do something simple that day. thanks

[> Re: 40th wedding anniversary ideas -- jacksmum, 18:41:44 03/26/04 Fri [1]

Would the hospital let you make up a picnic lunch for your parents to share on the day?
Use good crockery and cutlery and make the food things they both enjoy - add some strawberries dipped in chocolate and a bottle of apple cider or a non alcholic wine. You could even make your own label for the bottle with their names and Congratulations on it. Add a little posy of flowers and maybe a book of love poems - don't forget two nice glasses and serviettes.

Happy 40th Anniversary
I tried to make it fun
even though you're in the hospital
you're still with your special someone.
So smile and enjoy the day
the love you share is a tonic
and come the summer time
we'll party - you can count on it!

[> Re: 40th wedding anniversary ideas -- Caboobie, 19:32:41 03/26/04 Fri [1]

Today's your Ruby wedding
And we want to make you smile
So we've brought along the cards and gifts
To celebrate in style

So come on raise your glasses
To many years to come
And wish happy anniversary
To our special Dad and Mum
(C) 0304 Yvonne Lowther

[> Re: 40th wedding anniversary ideas -- crafterwannabe, 19:32:50 03/26/04 Fri [1]

I've posted this before but for my parents' 40th (quite a few years ago now) my sister and I bought a small journal and put 40 memories inside - each one on a separate page. We did each write a little note on the first page. At the top of each of the other pages, we wrote "I remember..." and then our memory. Most were just a sentence - some serious, some funny, most just little things. We started early jotting down thoughts as they'd come to us. Mom still keeps it within reach and shows it to people. It was one of their favorite all-time gifts. To show they don't have to be big things (because documenting 40 memories can seem so daunting), here are a few examples from the journal:
...Being glad my parents were my own when I visited friends’ homes.
...Warm roasted peanuts and the funny papers.
...Never knowing until I left home what canned vegetables tasted like.
...Dad still loving me after teaching me to drive.
...Rolling up Dad’s short sleeves so he’d look "cool".

[> Re: 40th wedding anniversary ideas -- Wendy, 23:53:27 03/26/04 Fri [1]

Thanks for the suggestions. My dad is on a ventilator--he has a trach tube so any food has to be really soft. Their grandkids are now in on the fun, so balloons will be a must.I love this site and think you ladies are great.
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Date Posted: 22:12:35 02/06/04 Fri
Author: Connie
Subject: OMG the day is here and I have not given any thought to

what I am going to do for my brother and sil's 40th wedding anniversary party. I have been so busy helping my neice get ready for her wedding that I lost all train of thought other than that. The invitation for the anniverysary party said no gifts just your presence, but I really hate to go empty handed and it is tomorrow night. Does anyone know of something like a gag gift a poem or something that would bring a spark to the evening? I appreciate any and all thoughts and please make it easy on me since it is the last minute LOL I know many of you will have some interesting and great ideas, thanks in advance for your help. I am so happy to have found this board and the wonderful people here. Thank you.
Hugs
CJ

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[> Re: OMG the day is here and I have not given any thought to -- Donna L., 23:13:20 02/06/04 Fri [1]

Connie, what about 40 suckers glued on a wreath and maybe a saying lilkle 40 Sucks. I have seen that done for other age groups. Donna L.

[> Re: OMG the day is here and I have not given any thought to -- Caboobie, 04:48:46 02/07/04 Sat [1]

Thought this might be useful for the gift tag

Forty years ago you both made a promise
To stay with each other for life
You looked at each other and then made a pledge
To become a good husband and wife
Now those years have gone by oh so quickly
And you two have proved to all the rest
That if you stay true, then the future for you
Will be wonderful, happy and blessed.

(c) Yvonne Lowther 1103

[> Re: OMG the day is here and I have not given any thought to -- craftster, 07:55:33 02/07/04 Sat [1]

There is an anniversary survival kit that might work. It is on this board.
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Date Posted: 08:03:07 04/03/04 Sat
Author: Melissa
Subject: Poem for 40th anniversary

I'm looking for a poem to put in a scrapbook for my parents 40th anniversary. I'm starting the scrapbook from when they started dating up until now with the grandchildren. They were high school sweethearts and married right out of high school and immediately started having kids. They have truly been an inspiration to all of us. Thanks in advance for any help....even any ideas for the scrapbook. Melissa

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[> Re: Poem for 40th anniversary -- Caboobie, 08:11:18 04/03/04 Sat [1]

Here you are Melissa, maybe this will help. BTW tell them congratulations from me. Hugs Yvonne

Just over forty years ago
Two hearts melted into one
They tied the knot and had some kids
Along with lots of fun
They were truly childhood sweethearts
Never far from one another
These two special people
Are my father and my mother
And now you see it's forty years
Since they stood there side by side
A handsome groom just waiting
For his beautiful young bride
Yes forty years seems awful long
But they'll say it's gone so fast
May their future be as rosy
As their ruby coloured past
(C)0404 Yvonne Lowther

[> Re: Poem for 40th anniversary -- Fay in Australia, 16:16:55 04/03/04 Sat [1]

This is one that I wrote for 2 friends for their 50th anniversary.
If 40 is ruby where you are, you could change it to 40 Ruby Years & change the personal parts to whatecver are your parent's personal interests,
Fay

50 GOLDEN YEARS!

50 years ago it happened
and it stood the test of time.
A marriage made in heaven
For a couple most sublime.

A little bit of everything
Has surely come their way.
Sometimes there were days when,
They wished it would all go away.

They’ve shared each other’s gladness,
Through the ever changing years
And comforted one another
As they wept each other’s tears!

Now Des just loves to garden
And make those orchids bloom
Then off to the golf course,
To give Thelma crafting room.

They’ve lived and loved together
And Thelma loves to paint!
Whether it be roses, animals
Or maybe a cottage quaint.

So let us drink a toast,
To what has gone before,
50 Golden Years!
May there be many more!!

Fay White

[> Re: Poem for 40th anniversary -- jenjoy, 22:56:44 04/03/04 Sat [1]

Caboobie and Fay...both poems are EXCELLENT! WOW! I'm not even going to try!
Jennifer

[> [> Re: Poem for 40th anniversary -- melissa, 09:44:05 04/04/04 Sun [1]

Thanks ladies, this will get me started FINALLY.........anniversary is May 2!!!! Melissa
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Date Posted: 18:43:28 03/23/04 Tue
Author: nonacook
Subject: Need your expertise--40th anniversery

I need a poem! I plan to make a red bead dangler, and want to say something about "not rubies" ---since ruby is the 40th anniversary thing! Help!

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[> Re: Need your expertise--40th anniversery -- jennifer, 19:41:59 03/23/04 Tue [1]

nonacook...could you give a little bit more information? Also, sometimes I little dense, so I'm not sure what you meant by "not rubies". Thanks...Jennifer B.

Here's something but I don't know if it's what you want...I'll try again if you'd like...

This beautiful, dangling
Suncatching thing
Is my humble gift
To you that I bring
I made it for both of you
To honor the years
Of laughter and memories
Joy and some tears
I chose the red beads
In this beautiful hue
For your ruby anniversary
That I celebrate with you!

[> Re: Need your expertise--40th anniversery -- nonacook, 18:15:52 03/24/04 Wed [1]

Thanks, Jennifer. That sounds good!
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Date Posted: 12:23:11 01/14/04 Wed
Author: Dant-doe
Subject: Help with 40th anniversary

My IL's 40th anniversary is the end of March, I would like to give them some type of party, not sure if it will be an open-house, or more of just a family type get-together. Any good ideas on decorations, food, etc...? They did not have a big wedding, so we don't really have wedding photos and such to display. Thanks for any help.
Jo

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[> Re: Help with 40th anniversary -- Caboobie, 19:04:06 01/14/04 Wed [1]

Sorry don't have many ideas re party, I have wrapped presents up in red paper or attached a red rose to them as it is a Ruby Wedding anniversary. I thought this might be useful for the invites.

Did you know it's forty years ago
(name)and (name)said 'I do'
So we're giving them a party
And want to invite you

They're a really special couple
And it's their Ruby Wedding Day
So come and help them celebrate it
With joy and laughter all the way.

(C)0104 Yvonne Lowther

[> Re: Help with 40th anniversary -- Tona, 00:17:50 01/15/04 Thu [1]

An idea which is popular around here for later anniversaries is to ask friends and relatives to write a favorite story about the couple and send it to one person who would arrange them in a memory book to put on display for the day and for the couple to enjoy later. You could also include pictures. Make sure pictures are labeled and dated. For decorations, pictures from the last 40 years, enlarged and put around the room for all to see makes for great conversations. Be sure you have a video camera for the big day and take lots of still pictures. Focus on the couple--after all, it's their day.

[> Re: Help with 40th anniversary -- Dant-doe, 10:45:12 01/16/04 Fri [1]

Thanks so much for the ideas, and Yvonne, the poem will be perfect for the invitations.
thanks again!
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Date Posted: 18:18:01 07/06/04 Tue
Author: sara
Subject: 40th Anniversary

Hi Gals,
This Fall we will be celebrating our 40th Anniversary(Wow,
can't believe it.) Any how, are there ideas or web sites for favors, flower arrangments or just some things different from the norm. It will be a 2 hour open house.
I choose the colors of soft yellow and as close as I can get to ruby red. I want to make invitations but nothing elaborate.
Any ideas or suggestions will be appreciated.
thanks from sara

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[> Re: 40th Anniversary -- friend, 20:32:34 07/06/04 Tue [1]

For a very simple but nice invite, look at Office Depot or Sam's Club for pretty paper to print up your invite on. You can even get the matching envelpoes.

I've written this to give you a start as to what can be done: ( didn't know your husband's name)

__________& SARAH have hit the Big '40'.

To celebrate, we're having an open house Party!!

The gift of your time is all we need,

Your attendance will make us happy indeed.

Please come & join the fun with us,

We'll provide good food, & conversation more or less.

When:

Time:

Address:

RSVP Regrets only no later than___________ @ #____________

HTH you get some ideas.

[> Re: 40th Anniversary -- sara, 18:24:50 07/07/04 Wed [1]

Thanks friend , I like that and will make a copy.

[> Re: 40th Anniversary -- Dant-doe, 13:37:29 07/08/04 Thu [1]

Hi Sara,
My in-laws had their 40th this year also, and I planned on giving them a party, but it never happened, too many other family things going on, but here is a poem that Yvonne wrote for me, maybe you can change it a little for your own use, and also a couple ideas I found for table centerpieces.

Did you know it's forty years ago
(name)and (name)said 'I do'
So we're giving them a party
And want to invite you

They're a really special couple
And it's their Ruby Wedding Day
So come and help them celebrate it
With joy and laughter all the way.

(C)0104 Yvonne Lowther

archivers note: invalid links deleted

a flower pot centerpiece
http://www.stensource.com/weddingctr.htm

[> Re: 40th Anniversary -- sara, 17:47:57 07/08/04 Thu [1]
Hi dant-doe
thanks for all your help and yes, the poem sounds fitting.
appreciate your time and i will check the web pages.
sara
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[crafterwannabe]

25TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEAS & LINKS

Date Posted: 13:59:01 06/08/04 Tue
Author: JudeA
Subject: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary.....

DEJEJU(Deb) I was wondering how you make your tealight votive bouquets. My 25th is on the 15th of June and I would like to make this if possible. Thanks, Judy

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[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- Patty, 15:11:51 06/12/04 Sat [1]

Thank you, jenjoy!
Yes, 25 years IS a long time, but sometimes it doesn't seem like it was THAT long ago!
It was funny a few years ago when I realized that I had been married longer than I had been single!
Patty

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- DEJEJU(DEB), 20:25:42 06/10/04 Thu [1]

JUDEA,
SORRY IT TOOK SO LONG TO POST. I WAS OUT OF TOWN FOR A FEW DAYS. I JUST REPLIED TO YOU BUT SOMEHOW THE POST WAS LOST SO HERE GOES AGAIN....

HERE IS THE SITE I USE FOR THE VOTIVE ROSES.....
http://tealited.com/mrwax/4/stevesframe ... ve%20Roses

HERE IS A SITE FOR TEALIGHT POPS

http://tealited.com/new/crafty/crafty5. ... ght%20Pops

HERE IS THE SITE FOR TEALIGHT BOQUETS...
http://tealited.com/new/crafty/crafty4. ... %20Bouquet:

AGAIN, I AM VERY SORRY FOR NOT GETTING TO YOU EARLIER. I HOPE THAT IT IS NOT TOO LATE AND THAT YOU CAN MAKE AT LEAST THE TULLE WRAPPED TEALIGHTS, THEY ARE VERY PRETTY AND EASY AND QUICK TO MAKE. I WOULD USE SOME SILVER TULLE. I WISH FOR YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND A WONDERFUL AND HAPPY 25TH ANNIVERSARY, AND THAT GOD SHINES HIS LOVING LIGHT ON YOU ON YOUR SPECIAL DAY AND ALWAYS!

DEB

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- Patty, 22:26:59 06/10/04 Thu [1]

Congratulations and Best Wishes, Judy! June 15th happens to be MY 25th anniversary, too!

[> [> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- JudeA, 10:24:34 06/11/04 Fri [1]

Congratulations and Best Wishes to you also, Patty! May God's blessings continue to fill your lives with love and happiness always.
Judy

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- JudeA, 10:20:51 06/11/04 Fri [1]

Thank you so much for all the sites. They are wonderful. Time to get busy. Please don't be sorry. They are in plenty of time and it is a blessing you have shared this with me.
Hugs, Judy


[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- Caboobie, 11:55:29 06/11/04 Fri [1]

Congratulations to both Jude and Patty. My 25th anniversay is the 16th June. Just think 25 years ago we were all running around getting everything ready and here we go again lol.

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- JudeA, 14:58:33 06/11/04 Fri [1]

Caboobie,
Blessings and Best wishes for the celebration of your love to one another, Happy 25th Anniversary!!!
Jude

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- Patty, 21:30:22 06/11/04 Fri [1]

Congratulations and Best Wishes to you, too, Yvonne! Thank you both for the good wishes!

Yvonne, I have made some cute Hershey's Kisses rosebuds in the past. You might want to make some for your silver anniversary celebration. I think these would be nice in bud vases on the tables or as favors. They're similar to the tealight bouquets. I'd use the reg. silver-wrapped Kisses and cover them with clear plastic wrap, then finish as directed to make silver rosebuds.
Go to:

www.hersheyskisses.com/htm/crafts_roses.htm

The ones I made, I used pink plastic wrap to cover the Kisses to make pink rosebuds for Valentine's Day for the teachers that I volunteer for. I also used cool melt glue to glue the 2 Kisses together. They loved them!
Best Wishes!
Patty

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- jenjoy, 23:40:42 06/11/04 Fri [1]

I think it is just awesome to read that so many marriages are staying the coarse...Congratulations to all of you for 25 years of marriage!
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Date Posted: 10:09:53 01/31/04 Sat
Author: cookiegirl
Subject: 25 th anniversary on St. Pat's Day ideas?

I am looking for some ideas for table decorations & poems for a 25th wedding anniversary on St. Patrick's Day. They were married on St. Pat's Day and want the two combined. Any one have any ideas? I would appreciate all the help I can get. Thank you everyone.

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[> Re: 25 th anniversary on St. Pat's Day ideas? -- jenjoy, 19:54:14 01/31/04 Sat [1]

Oh the luck of the Irish
Is something they say
We should celebrate on
St. Patricks Day
But there's something else
Quite special you see
Its (Jack and Jill's)
Silver wedding anniversary!
Jennifer Byerly

You could shop at the local thrift stores for inexpensive glass planters (or low, squatty vases). Spray paint them with metalic silver paint - since it's a silver anniversary - (since it is a temporary thing you shouldn't have to worry about the paint not adhering for any length of time...they should be fine for the short amount of use you would need). Check with a florist or local nursury about getting the large sized clover (I can't remember it's specific name) and then plant it in the planters. Print the poem and put it on decorative/green paper. You can purchase florist forks directly from a florist shop for about .30 each. ( these are the tall, clear forks that they stick in arrangements to put the little card on) and then put the poem on the fork and have it sticking out of the potted clover used as centerpieces.

Another idea:
Though our anniversary is silver
Our love is really gold!
Just like the potted treasure
At the rainbow's end we're told!
That's why this day is extra
Special don't you see
Our marriage is a treasure
And it was meant to be!!!
Jennifer Byerly

Attach the above poem to a small bag of chocolate coins bagged up in netting - give as little gifts to the guests. Or put the chocolate coins on the table as the center piece with the poem next to them.
Jennifer Byerly
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Date Posted: 12:48:12 03/15/04 Mon
Author: DEJEJU
Subject: hello! I need help again!

Well guys, I am getting down to the wire here. My dad has been the hospital AGAIN. Damn heart. So I have forgone doing the things I should have been doing. my next door neighbors are having a 25th anniversary party. And I was looking for some type of poem or something to go on the invitations. She wants the words" Two hearts shall become one" in it somewhere. Any ideas at all???????Please Please! Thanks. And to everyone who needs prayers, I pray for you all everyday. Even if you don't need prayers, I'm praying for ya!

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[> Re: hello! I need help again! -- Caboobie, 14:25:40 03/15/04 Mon [1]

Twenty five years ago
Our two hearts became one
So we're having a little party
We hope you'll come along
To help mark the occaision
And join us to celebrate
The day our hearts were joined in love
Please make sure you circle the date
(c) 0304 Yvonne Lowther

[> Re: hello! I need help again! -- jenjoy, 19:15:15 03/15/04 Mon [1]

A man a wife
Began their life
25 years ago
They pledged their love
Before God above
With vows that made it so

All could see
'Twas meant to be
And there would be no other
Two hearts as one
When the day was done
Made for one another
Jennifer Byerly

[> Re: hello! I need help again! -- jacksmum, 20:15:46 03/15/04 Mon [1]

DEJEJU I'll say a prayer for your Dad.

Yvonne & Jennifer FABULOUS work!
I had a go too:

Two hearts became one
twenty five years ago
two souls were entwined
loving each other so.
Over time a lot has happened
changes have come our way
but one thing never waivered
our love is still as strong today.
So we're taking time to celebrate
with friends and family dear
please join us on this special day
of laughter, fun and cheer.
~Sue Pitchfork~

[> [> Re: hello! I need help again! -- DEJEJU, 22:09:56 03/15/04 Mon [1]
Oh my! It is just so amazing at how talented you all are! And how great it is that you all share it with us. I so appreciate this! You are all TERIFFIC!!!! Thank You, Thank You, Thank You so much!

[> [> Re: hello! I need help again! -- DEJEJU, 22:11:10 03/15/04 Mon [1]
Oh my! It is just so amazing at how talented you all are! And how great it is that you all share it with us. I so appreciate this! You are all TERIFFIC!!!! Thank You, Thank You, Thank You so much!

[> Re: hello! I need help again! -- DEJEJU, 07:49:11 03/16/04 Tue [1]
Hi! Was reading your request and I have a website that you may find very interesting. It is www.versalog.com you should be able to find what your looking for there.

[> [> Re: hello! I need help again! -- DEJEJU, 20:23:42 03/16/04 Tue [1]
Thank you all again. You are Fantastic!!!
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Date Posted: 06:28:38 06/04/04 Fri
Author: Deb from Pa
Subject: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary.....

A friend of mine is searching for ideas for her son and his wife for their 25th anniversary in December....
Any ideas?
Thanks!

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[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- Deb from Pa, 05:37:09 06/06/04 Sun [1]

Thanks Sue, Love the poem and ideas....thanks...my list is getting interesting....so many options, and now a poem too! LOL

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- DEJEJU(DEB), 18:16:24 06/04/04 Fri [1]

I am doing my next door neighbor's 25th anniversary party. I have some ideas for you. Make some tealight votive boquets. Also you can get some champaigne gobblets and make candles with them. If you are talking about a gift,
It is always nice to give a special gift certificate to someplace romantic.Include some canldes, some wine or champaigne and maybe a voucher for a limo to pick them up and drive them home so that they can have a drink and come home safely.

The 25th anniversary is silver, So I would wrap up some little candies, satin undies, some strawberries and whip cream or whatever you like in silver tin foil and put them on a package(if you have more than these items). with some silver curling ribbon. And some silve rings found at a craft store. I'll keep thinking too. If you could please tell me if he is looking for a gift or favors etc. for a party.
~Deb

[> [> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- JudeA, 18:48:48 06/06/04 Sun [1]

DEJEJU(Deb) I was wondering how you make your tealight votive bouquets. My 25th is on the 15th of June and I would like to make this if possible. Thanks, Judy

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- Caboobie, 05:54:40 06/06/04 Sun [1]

Hi Deb, We will be celebrating our silver wedding on 16th June and we are having a party on Saturday. I'd like to make some small favours up for the tables, but can't come up with anything, so hope you don't mind me asking, via your post, for any ideas. Something cheap and cheerful if possible. Thanks.

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- Deb from Pa, 20:28:06 06/05/04 Sat [1]

Hi Deb,
Thanks for your ideas..I'll be sure and tell my girl friend. Yes, she was looking for a gift for her son and his wife
Thanks

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- jacksmum, 01:34:05 06/06/04 Sun [1]

I wrote a poem in case she wanted to use one:

25 years together
where have the years all gone?
I look at you and see the love
it's still going strong.
I remember when you meet
he was still my little boy,
but then you married
and filled his heart with joy.
Through the years you've grown
both changed in many ways,
but your love stays the same
wanting each other for always.
And I feel so blessed
to see this day arrive,
best wishes for you both
my son and his lovely bride.
~Sue Pitchfork~

How about bath sheet with their names embroidered?
25 bars of chocolate? ~ LOL I'd LOVE that gift!
Silver toast holder with assorted jams, marmalades etc?
A gift voucher?
2 silver engraved goblets?

anyway hope this helps.
Sue

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- jazbo, 09:19:10 06/06/04 Sun [1]

These favors are for sale, but the site gives some good ideas:
http://www.originalfavors.com/products.html - wedding/anniversary favors

How about a message in a bottle? Get small bottles & write a poem for the guests, or whatever.
http://www.thegreetingstore.com/cgibin/ ... duct=c325t

Maybe a 2" finished yo-yo with 2 little silver rings from the craft department, sewn on? It could be a magnet, bookmark, etc.

Anniversary Hugs and Kisses
Fifty (Twenty Five) years of wedded bliss
You deserve a great big kiss
A hug or two are also here
Congratulations to the lucky pair
Best Wishes are in store
How about trying for 50 (25) more!
Happy Anniversary!

Anniversary Key
This Anniversary key is given to you.....
To Congratulate, and wish you, Good Luck too.....
Your Anniversary Day is here,
and we celebrate with lots of cheer....
This key is a reminder to keep your hearts open.....
And, allow your Love to deepen.......
Hang this Key in a special place......
And when you see it, give each other a warm embrace.
Happy Anniversary, and wishes for many more, with
years of Happiness and Love galore......
---by gingersnap

A Little Wedding Lucky Penny,
A little Thank You for attending my
wedding....(maybe change this to anniversary)
I hope it brings Good Luck to you.
And brings you Love and Happiness too.
–by gingersnap

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- Caboobie, 09:34:38 06/06/04 Sun [1]
Thank you Jazbo, I'll check out the site and the poems have given me some ideas as well. Cheers

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- melinda ny, 09:58:41 06/06/04 Sun [1]

We just did a silver anny. party for my parents... tho, it was a little easier, b/c it was on Valentine's Day.

But I made those mint matchbook. about thanking everyone for celebrating their 25th.

also went to the Marie site, for what happened 25 years ago and made the tents with a lot of the info on them. this gave everyone something to do while they we waiting, b/c it was a surprise party.

I added paper doiley hearts in red and white and scattered confetti on the tables as well. we had balloons and i went to the dollar store, bought 10 glass vases, irridesencent marbles(for wieght), added silk flowers, they actually looked nice, at first i thought it was going to be cheap looking, but it really wasn't.
hope some of these help.
Melinda

[> Re: ISO: Ideas for silver anniversary..... -- Deb from Pa, 21:39:27 06/06/04 Sun [1]
Thanks everyone..great ideas.....Yep, Yvonne, helpy selfy...I sure don't mind sharing since you shared with me many times in the past......that's why we're here.... *~*

[crafterwannabe]

POEM: FAVOR FOR DIAMOND (60th) WEDDING ANNIVERSARY PARTY GUESTS

Date Posted: 15:29:21 04/20/04 Tue
Author: Jane
Subject: Diamond wedding

Hi
I wonder if you clever poets out there, could come up with a poem to put on favours at a Diamond wedding party, to thank the people for coming to help the couple celebrate 60 years of marriage
Many thanks
Jane

[> Re: Diamond wedding -- Caboobie, 15:38:41 04/21/04 Wed [1]

Just a little thank you
For celebrating with us two
Can you believe it's Sixty years
Since the day we said 'I do'

So come on enjoy the party
Lets have a bit of a fun
For it wouldn't have been as special
If it wasn't for what you've done
0404 Yvonne Lowther

[crafterwannabe]

POEM & IDEAS: PARENTS' 48th ANNIVERSARY MEMORY BOOK

Date Posted: 21:01:09 04/17/04 Sat
Author: DONNA K
Subject: PARENTS MEMORY BOOK

MY PARENTS WILL BE CELEBRATING THEIR 48TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY AND I AM BUYING A SCRAP BOOK AND ALSO EXTRA PAGES, I HAVE 3 BROTHERS AND 1 SISTER. AND MY MOM AND DAD HAVE 18 GRANDCHILDREN.

DOES THIS SOUND SILLY. I WOULD LIKE TO GIVE EACH CHILD AND ADULT A SCRAP BOOK PAGE AND ASK THEM TO EITHER MAKE A COLLAGE OF PICTURES, A POEM OR ANYTHING THEY WANT TO DO ...JUST MAKE IT THEIR OWN. AND THEN I WILL GATHER THEM ALL TOGETHER AND PUT THEM IN A BOOK AND GIVE IT TO MOM AND DAD WHEN WE TAKE THEM OUT TO DINNER.

KINDA WOULD LIKE A POEM TO GIVE TO MY BROTHERS AND SISTER TELLING THEM WHAT IT WOULD MEAN TO MOM AND DAD TO HAVE THAT PERSONAL TOUCH FROM THEM IN THIS MEMORY BOOK.

WHAT DO YOU GALS THINK..... OR ANY OTHER IDEAS YOU CAN SHARE.

DONNA

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[> Re: PARENTS MEMORY BOOK -- Sharlet, 21:17:17 04/17/04 Sat [1]

I think that is a great idea. This was for a different occasion but the same concept . . . when my brother turned 50, I made him a scrapbook. Each family member wrote a note or letter to him and included pictures pertinent to that family. Also I wrote a note to all of his friends that I could contact asking them to write something to be included in the book. I heard from friends of his from grade and high school, Navy friends, former and current co-workers, etc., etc. They all wrote a bit for him and some included pictures. It was the neatest thing and he loved it!

[> Re: PARENTS MEMORY BOOK -- jacksmum, 22:39:56 04/17/04 Sat [1]

48 years of married bliss
(first names) celebrate this year
and as a special gift
I'd like to give a book of cheer.
I'm asking for your help
by giving you a page to fill
write or stick in photos
do anything you will.
Make it full of memories
and what they mean to you
and I will collect it
when your page is through.
I'll put the pages all together
each family member gets a say
and then I'll present it
on (names) special day.
It will be something to treasure
a keepsake from us all
of how much we love them
whether we're big or small.
~Sue Pitchfork~

[> Re: PARENTS MEMORY BOOK -- Rusty Fan, 07:39:44 04/19/04 Mon [1]

I am in the process of making a family album too. I am having each family member make a page or as many pages as they wish for the album. It will include poetry, pictures, letters, drawings, whatever they want to enter. In the front I have made a journaling of everyones birth dates and anniversary dates and their complete full names.

[> Re: PARENTS MEMORY BOOK -- Gail, 07:55:24 04/19/04 Mon [1]

Donnak I think that is a wonderful idea. This way it will show everyones creativity and it won't be done strickly by yourself. I will have to keep this in mind for the future. Once again wonderful idea...everyone is so clever in here....I LOVE IT.
Gail

[> Re: PARENTS MEMORY BOOK -- crafterwannabe, 11:49:20 04/19/04 Mon [1]

Last fall, one of my dil's friends asked all her other friends and family to create a page or pages to help celebrate her 40th B/D. There were no rules except for the size page and it was amazing to see how each family created such different things. It was no surprise that this memory album was her favorite gift. It's a great thing you're doing, Donna, and your parents will love it! Try to insert some journaling too with reasons why you love your mom and dad and some of the little memories that have stuck with you all these years.

[> Re Parents Memory Book - Author CheriPie - Posted May 19, 2004 1:43 am

I added a time capsule from dmarie.com in my scrapbook for my parents 65th wedding anniversary. It was fun to see the changes in prices over the years. Good Luck on your plans. CheriPie
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POEMS: PARENTS 48th ANNIVERSARY

Date Posted: 19:30:26 04/25/04 Sun
Author: rhonda
Subject: Parents anniversary poem

I am working on a project and card and need a poem for my parents 48th anniversary...i'll give a little that I know to Help...married 5/5/56 in So. Bend IN at St. Matthew Catholic Church by Rev. Arnold J. Wibbert...the alter and railing were baskets of white snap dragons, daisies and mums...brides maids each had different color dresses-Matron of honor green, brides maids pink, blue and yellow....guess you could say rainbow colors.....their names Robert A. Gunder and Marlene Morence of course we call them mom and dad....they were high school sweet hearts and graduated from Riley High School....i guess this would be enough....thanks again trying to do something different and bring back old memories....thanks guys...rhonda

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[> Re: Parents anniversary poem -- Fay in Australia, 20:39:51 04/25/04 Sun [1]

Hello Rhonda,
I tried, but I was not sure if your mother enjoyed housework or not.
If I knew some of their hobbies or interests, I could change that part,
Fay
~MARLENE & ROBERT ~

48 years ago it happened
and it stood the test of time.
A marriage made in Heaven,
For a couple most sublime.

High School sweethearts first,
Then college & graduation
They stood in St. Mathews Church
Among flowers of God’s creation

Rev Arnold Wibbert was the one
Who helped them tie the knot.
In 1956 they took the vows
That they still have not forgot.

A little bit of everything
Has surely come their way.
Sometimes there were days when,
They wished it would all go away.

They’ve shared each other’s gladness
Through the ever changing years
And comforted one another,
As they’ve wept each other’s tears.

A hostess with the “most-ess”
Marlene is known all over town,
Immaculate house & good cook,
A happy smile – never a frown.

An inspiration to us all,
As she supports her man.
Whatever Robert may be doing,
Marlene helps out if she can.

So let us drink a toast
To what has gone before.
Forty Eight great years!
May there be many more.

Fay White

[> Re: Parents anniversary poem -- rhonda, 11:17:45 04/26/04 Mon [1]

Fay this is very nice....thanks so very much....Thought I'd let you know that I guess both of their hobbies would be NASCAR....also i changed the part of "among flowers of god's creation" to among the mums, daisies and snap dragons of god's creation. But is there a way to shorten this using the kinds of flowers.....thanks for the help....rhonda

[> Re: Parents anniversary poem -- Fay in Australia, 17:27:26 04/26/04 Mon [1]
Good morning Rhonda, yes I too tried to shorten those flowers, with little success. It is 7am in the morning here,so I am not quite with it, but what does NASCAR stand for?

I wrote one for friends & he does woodwork, so put this
A hostess with the “most-ess”
Immaculate house, good cook,
Judy knows if she wants Max,
The shed is where to look.

Max is handy with his hands,
Timber soon turns to treasure.
To see his productive shed,
Really is a pleasure.
Another friend loves to garden & tell stories, so I put this:

Ron just loves to garden,
With his fingers green,
And keeps us entertained,
Telling of times he has seen.
Another couple were into craft, golf etc.
Now Des just loves to garden
And make those orchids bloom
Then off to the golf course,
To give Thelma crafting room.

They’ve lived and loved together
And Thelma loves to paint!
Whether it be roses, animals
Or maybe a cottage quaint.

So you see that with the basic poem & altering the year, it is quite versatile,
Fay

[> Re: Parents anniversary poem -- rhonda, 18:06:15 04/26/04 Mon [1]
Hello Fay.....NASCAR is International car racing....your thoughts and words are so very good....thxs rhonda

[> Re: Parents anniversary poem -- Fay in Australia, 18:50:18 04/26/04 Mon [1]
Thank you MaryLee for the following:
Fay

[> Re: Good morning poets. NASCAR ? Help please -- MaryLee, 18:47:06 04/26/04 Mon [1]

Here's the poem I use for the Nascar Frustration Brick
We know the race is on TV and for hours that's where you will be.
Watching the cars go round and round,lap after lap you're simply spellbound. You are hoping for no blown engine or flat tire. The checkered flag is what you desire. If you guy should lose his lead, throwing this brick at the TV is all you need.
Hope this helps.

[crafterwannabe]

20th ANNIVERSARY POEM FOR HUSBAND

Date Posted: 17:32:11 12/07/03 Sun
Author: deb
Subject: anniversary poem for my husband

I am looking for a poem to give my husband of 20 years. Any ideas out there?

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[> Re: anniversary poem for my husband -- gingersnap, 19:47:58 12/07/03 Sun [1]
Hiya deb, good to see you....hope this helps....

Twenty Years of Loving you.....
It was so very easy to do......
You've made all my dreams
come true,
Ever since that day we said, "I do.

If I had to do it over again......
I'd marry you in a wink.....It's a
decision I wouldn't have to
rethink....
These words I write are Sincere,
Happy Anniversary, My Love, and
My Precious Dear

[crafterwannabe]

LINK: CANDY CANDLE FOR ANNIVERSARY

Date Posted: 14:29:32 05/14/03 Wed
Author: Twinrme
Subject: Candy candle

This could be used for any reason...Birthday,Anniversary, Father's Day, etc...
http://crafterscommunity.net/index.php/71

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[> Re: Candy candle -- jacksmum, 20:22:20 05/16/03 Fri [1]

Can't think of a poem at the moment but maybe a saying:
"Candy Lights Up My World"
Sue

[crafterwannabe]

WEDDING ANNIVERSARY POEM

Date Posted: 23:35:40 07/04/03 Fri
Author: Pat J
Subject: parents 58th anniversary

I know this is quick notice, but I need a short poem for my parents 58th anniversary. It's this Monday, but will be seeing them on Sunday.
Thanks gals. Pat J

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[> Re: parents 58th anniversary -- gingersnap, 01:18:32 07/05/03 Sat [1]

Pat I wrote this for 25/50 Anniversary Survival kit.....but cant see why you can't put 58 there......

Fifty years of wedded bliss...
You deserve a great big kiss...
A hug or two are also here....
Congratulations to the lucky
pair......
Best Wishes are in store...How
bout trying for 50 more....
Happy Anniversary!

[crafterwannabe]

IDEAS: RENEWING WEDDING VOWS

Date Posted: 21:46:28 02/17/04 Tue
Author: jacksmum
Subject: Marriage Vows reaffirmation

Hi folks.
In April I will be turning 40 and this year Tony & I have been married 20 years so have decided on a party - combined Birthday/reaffirmation of marriage vows.

I'd like to write our own vows and have a couple of poems and maybe a Unity Candle that can be lit by us and our children.

We really want it to be a celebration of how blessed we are not just with each other but also with great teenagers (aged 16 & 14) and family support.

We'd like a celebration of Family Life and Love. We want the kids involved in the ceremony and will have about 40 guests.

Now I need help. All ideas, suggestions for decorations, vows, things to include in service are most welcome. I want it to be a very special night without spending a lot of money or getting too formal but aren't sure how to go about it.

Looking forward to your replies.
Sue

Re: Marriage Vows reaffirmation -- KrafteeKaren, 23:12:43 02/17/04 Tue [1]

Sue,
When DH and I were married 25 years we decided to get re-married, we contacted the minister that married us the first time, contacted the church, etc. We tried our best to duplicate everything that we did the first time on a very tight budget. We made our own invitations, I made my dress as well as our daughters dress that stood up for us, I also made the flowers. For the centerpieces we took ivy bowls, put Hershey Hugs and Kisses in them and tied silver, white, pale yellow and pale blue helium balloons from them, they were very simple to make and very inexpensive. The tablecloths were nothing other than plastic white tablecloths, and the cake was from Sam's. I think the total expense was less than $300. Hope this helps a little bit.

Re: Marriage Vows reaffirmation -- Fay in Australia, 00:01:29 02/18/04 Wed [1]

Friends invited us to their anniversary celebration & they were married in the 70 s so we all dressed like that.
It was a big surprise to us, when one of the guests turned out to be a marriage celebrant & they stood under an arch & renewed their vows.
Some people went to a lot of trouble, some simple.
But the groom, although not old, has a grey beard & hair.
None of us recognised him as he dyed his hair & beard the colour it was when he was married.

This was held in the dining room of a hotel & table centres etc were in 70s style & colour
Fay

Re: Marriage Vows reaffirmation -- jenjoy, 00:51:16 02/18/04 Wed [1]
Dear Sue,

Congratulations on two milestones in your life! I celebrated my 40th a year ago and then our 20th anniversary was just last summer. We did not exchange vows again but I've always thought it would be such an awesome thing to do. Please keep us informed about what you plan to do...it's going to be wonderful I am sure!!!!!!

Here are a few things that came to my mind:
Definitely pictures! Twenty years worth showing your life together. Perhaps a beautiful board to display them on - or do you already have them in an album? Or how about choosing from the best of your 20 years of (memories) pictures and making them into slides (or power point?) and then having a slide show to music after the vows are finished?

Perhaps 4 candle sticks to represent the four in your family. You and your husband could light a unity candle using your two candle sticks and then the two of you together could take the unity candle and light the children's candles - just as the two of you gave them life. Then the candles could be placed in a beautiful display to symbolize your family unity...perhaps you could write a poem to go along with it to place next to the candles. Or someone could read the poem aloud as the candles were being lit.

Re: Marriage Vows reaffirmation -- crafterwannabe, 11:54:57 02/19/04 Thu [1]

I loved an idea my niece used when they recently renewed their vows on their 10th anniversary and immediately thought it was a good idea for you because you are such a gifted writer. Niece had immediate family and a few very close friends only so maybe it made it easier. Since I was a little sketchy on details, I asked her to describe what she did. Hope you don't mind my quoting her directly. You could change the words to whatever fits your family and I know you would have no problem coming up with appropriate words. You certainly wouldn't have to do this for every guest, just those special family members or friends that have made special contributions to your marriage. I will mention that they got married close to Christmas and at their wedding they had a tree full of Christmas balls they decorated with her burgundy wedding color for all guests. I believe that's why she chose to make the presentation to each with another ornament at this 10-yr celebration. My sister said it was wonderful and moving as they read what word they had selected for each recipient (or couple) and the meaning behind their selection.

Excerpt from niece's email: "As far as the words when we renewed our vows, they were wooden ornaments on a Christmas tree that I tied with celery-colored ribbon that matched my dress, invitations, decor, etc. What we did was to select a word that either symbolized how each person impacted our marriage or one that signified what they've contributed to our marriage over the past ten years. We had that word engraved on the ornament. Then we wrote short letters (3-4 sentences) to each person & rolled them into a scroll, tying them with the celery ribbon. The letters explained the personal significance of each word - and we read the letters to each person as we presented them with the ornament.

"Examples of the words we chose were "affirmation" - for the couple who builds each other up with positive words of encouragement & respect at all times; "acceptance" - for the friend who knew us at the start of our journey & never judged our humble beginnings; "security" - for the parents who provided a safe & sure foundation we've been able to fall back on. The other words we selected were: growth, wisdom, inspiration, integrity, reliance, hope, providence, family, perseverance, companionship, and introspection. Hope this information helps!"

Re: Marriage Vows reaffirmation -- jacksmum, 00:56:04 02/20/04 Fri [1]

Thanks for the input everyone. I'm getting all excited.
KAREN I'll be making the invitations but friends have a printing business so plan on bugging him for off cuts and ideas. We also have some heart shaped bowls that we will fill with water and a floating candle as table decorations and silk flower petals scattered on the table cloths. As for flowers I'm thinking of just carrying a single rose or maybe a bunch of daisies. My daughter has consented to wear a dress - believe me that's a miracle so I don't expect her to carry flowers too.

FAY I love the 70's idea, LOL we'd spend the night at the hospital if I tried wearing platform shoes.

JENNIFER Yes definitely lots of photos. Mum is going to find ones of me growing up to display as well. The unity candle idea is lovely and a great way yo include all 4 of us - LOL I'm already working on a poem.

CRAFTERWANNABE The ornament idea is lovely too. I also had an email suggesting wedding survival kits as favors so thinking of going with that and scented candles in scrolls.

Please keep the ideas coming.
Regarding Food - Having a buffet at about 6pm for approx 40 people thought about:

Dips and crackers, potato chips, Chicken, quiche, salads, baked potatoes, mini sausage rolls, vegetable mix (served hot in half a pumpkin) bread rolls, caramel slice and cheese cake. Tea, coffee and cold drinks but bring your own alcohol. Should we supply wine for toasts? LOL and should we have toasts?

Then a black forest birthday cake with a bride and groom on top. Does that sound enough??

Thank you and please keep the ideas coming.
Sue

[krafteekaren]

PERSONALIZED POEM FOR PARENTS' 48TH ANNIVERSARY

Date Posted: 12:32:30 02/08/04 Sun
Author: donna
Subject: parents anniversary

MY PARENTS WILL BE MARRIED 48 YEARS ON FEBRUARY 9TH.

IF ANY POETS ARE OUT THERE....THEIR LIFE HAS BEEN WELL....LET ME TELL YOU;

THEY GOT MARRIED IN 1956. MY MOM WAS 16 AND MY DAD WAS 25.
SHE HAD 5 KIDS BEFORE SHE WAS 21. SHE WAS ALWAYS A STAY AT HOME MOM..WHILE DAD WORKED..WE NEVER THOUGHT WE WERE POOR BECAUSE MOM AND DAD NEVER LET US THINK THAT. THEY HAVE BEEN THROUGH ALOT WITH US KIDS.DONNA, TIM, VICKIE, TERRY AND BRIAN. THEIR HAS BEEN KIDS IN TROUBLE, A FEW DIVORCES, AND EVEN A FEW STEP KIDS ALONG THE WAY. WE HAVE ALL NEEDED OUR PARENTS IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER THROUGH OUR LIFE. BUT THE GRANDKIDS WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT THEY ALL MEAN TO MY MOM. SHE WILL ALWAYS BE THERE THRU THICK AND THIN AND THEY ALL KNOW IF THEY EVER NEED ANYTHING GRANDMA WILL ALWAYS BE THERE.. BOTH MY PARENTS NOW HAVE EMPHYSEMA AND ARE BOTH ON COMPLETE OXYGEN. DAD NOW HAS SOME HEART TROUBLE AND IS A DIABETIC WHILE MOM ALSO HAS POLYSISTIC KIDNEY DISEASE. THEY STAY AT HOME ALOT AND CANNOT ENJOY THE LIFE THEY THOUGHT THEY WOULD HAVE AT RETIREMENT. SOME OF HER KIDS GO AND SEE HER AND SOME DON'T. SOME GRANDKIDS GO AND SEE HER AND SOME DON'T.
THEY DO ENJOY EACH OTHER AND IT IS SO WONDERFUL TO SEE MOM AND DAD TAKING CARE OF EACH OTHER.
DAD WORKED AT A BREWERY TILL HE RETIRED AND MOM DID GO TO WORK ONCE WE ALL GOT IN SCHOOL. SHE WAS A BARTENDER AND WAITRESS FOR 30 YEARS AND THEN A MANAGER OF A CREDIT UNION FOR 10. ESPECIALLY MY MOM HAS GIVEN UP ALOT TAKING US TO DANCE LESSONS, CUB SCOUT MEETINGS, LITTLE LEAGUE GAMES AND BEING A PART OF AS MUCH AS SHE COULD. SHE WAS THE FAVORITE MOTHER AT RECESS PROBABLY BECAUSE SHE LOOKED LIKE ONE OF THE KIDS. THE CARS I REMEBER WERE NOT THE BEST BUT IT ALWAYS GOT US WHERE WE NEEDED TO GO.
I LOOK BACK AS MUCH AS I CAN REMEMBER AND I HOPE MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE THE SAME LOVE MY PARENTS HAVE WHEN WE ARE OLDER.
EVEN THOUGH THEY CANNOT ENJOY WHAT THEY LIKE....IF MOM IS HAVING A BAD DAY...DAD WILL COOK AND TAKE CARE OF HER... SAME WITH MOM...TO DAD. MY BROTHER AND I ARE THE CLOSEST TO THEM AND HELP OUT AS MUCH AS THEY LET US. DAD CAN NO LONGER MOW OR GO TO THE BASEMENT..MOM CAN NO LONGER GO UPSTAIRS.
I HOPE SOME ONE OUT THERE CAN PUT ALL THESE WORDS INTO A POEM FOR THEM...MY MOTHER LOVES POEMS...
YOUR HELP IS SO MUCH APPRECIATED AT THIS TIME...
MOM TRYS TO SEW A LITTLE AND DOES MAKE SOME CRAFTS WHICH WE ALL TREASURE WHEN THEY ARE GIVEN AS GIFTS...DAD ENJOYS HIS CHOCOLATE..WHICH HE SHOULD NOT HAVE


[> Re: parents anniversary -- Caboobie, 14:21:21 02/08/04 Sun [1]

Here you go Donna, I hope it covers what you wanted it to.
Maybe Jennifer, Sue and the others will come up with some different ones for you as well. Hugs Yvonne

Is really 48 years ago
That two hearts turned into one
When Mum and Dad got married
Then had two daughters and three sons

It all began in ‘56
And times were pretty tough
But in our house we made up for that
With lots of love and stuff

For Mum and Dad were always there
To make sure we were clothed and fed
And every night we’d get a kiss
Before we went to bed

Throughout our lives they’ve been our rock
Where we’d cling when things went wrong
They’d listen and offer words of help
We’d be weak, but they’d be strong

Dance classes, cub scout meetings
Little league games and the rest
While dad was at work Mum’d take us
She surely was the best

Our schooldays always brought a smile
And Mum was number one
Probably due to her own young age
She could mix with anyone

It wasn’t long till we grew up
And went our separate ways
But we often thought of times before
Sweet memories of childhood days

Then as the years, they rolled on by
We all grew up and moved along
Grandchildren came upon the scene
To join our happy throng

Dad retired from brewery work
And mum, she did the same
Looking forward to a peaceful time
Two hearts were one again

And though they suffer from ill health
They don’t let this get them down
When one is feeling poorly
You won’t see the other frown

They just get on with taking care
Of each other for you see
They’re still in love after 48 years
That’s the way they want to be

Mum and dad you’ve proved to all
How a family should be
And we want you to know how very proud
You make us all you see

We couldn’t have asked for better parents
For we were blessed with both of you
You’ve set a fine example
Of how love can see you through

So as this special day approaches
We’ve just one thing to say
We love you both with all our hearts
Happy Anniversay Day

© 0204 Yvonne Lowther


[> [> Re: parents anniversary -- donna, 20:05:42 02/08/04 Sun [1]

Yvonne,
I am going to cry. You have put it into words.
Thank You so very much and I know my parents will enjoy it.
It is such a blessing to still have the chance to talk to them and re-live some of their memories. I will always appreciate what you have done...Thanks again!!!!
Hugs,
Donna

[crafterwannabe]

50th WEDDING ANNIVERSARY JAR GIFT & POEM

Give poem with 50 jellybeans in a pretty jar.

50 years together
of rainbow days and fun
a life full of flavors
of things you've said and done.
Red jellybeans for love
blue for memories shared
yellow for forever
orange for times you cared.
Best wishes on this day
of 50 years of bliss
enjoy these jellybeans
as you sit and remininsce.
~Sue Pitchfork~

[crafterwannabe]

ANNIVERSARY POEM FROM WIFE TO HUSBAND

Date Posted: 08:04:00 08/25/04 Wed
Author: JudyW
Subject: Anniversary Poem Please

Today is my 36th wedding anniversary and I would really appreciate it if someone would write me a poem for my husband.We met when I was 15, married at 16 and had first child at 17. We have 3 Handsome sons and 2 beautiful grandchildren.(1 boy,1 girl).
TIA
JudyW

Replies:
[> Re: Anniversary Poem Please -- JudyW, 15:35:49 08/25/04 Wed [1]

Oh Jennifer you made me cry!!
You put into beautiful words exactly how I feel and what I wanted to say.
Just know that because of you, you have made two people very happy with your poem. I am going to put our wedding photo on a card and put the poem inside. So Again as usual I thank you from the bottom of my heart
JudyW

[> Re: Anniversary Poem Please -- jenjoy, 15:41:42 08/25/04 Wed [1]

oh Judy, you're sweet...happy anniversary! God bless!!!

[> Re: Anniversary Poem Please -- Brandi, 10:06:30 08/25/04 Wed [1]

Congrats on your Anniversary! What a special thing in a day where marriages never last!

[> Re: Anniversary Poem Please -- jenjoy, 10:44:57 08/25/04 Wed [1]

Well Judy, that's just wonderful! Congratulations to the both of you!!!! May God continue to bless your marriage abundantly! Here's my attempt at a poem for you...

I still remember clearly
When I was swept away
My heart was filled with longing
It was my wedding day

We’ve stretched and grown together
For Thirty six awesome years
Bonded by the ups and downs
Marked in joy and tears

Surviving the adventure
Of raising our three boys
We’re now blessed with 2 grandkids
Who’ve twice increased our joy

As we look to the future
And all that may unfold
I’m glad that I’ll have your hand
That I will always hold!
© 2004 Jennifer Byerly

[> Re: Anniversary Poem Please -- Londonlee, 12:42:41 08/25/04 Wed [1]

Terrific poem, Jennifer. On the 2nd of Sept. I will celebrating 37 years with my DH,we have 2 sons and 1&7/9 grandchildren so, with your permission I'll tinker with the numbers and use it too, in my handmade card. Thank you! Your words are wonderful.
Lee

[> Re: Anniversary Poem Please -- Caboobie, 13:22:18 08/25/04 Wed [1]

Great poem Jennifer, I'm not even going to try. Congratulations Judy.

[> Re: Anniversary Poem Please -- jenjoy, 13:27:46 08/25/04 Wed [1]

Lee-how neat that you can use this poem! Feel free to "tinker with the numbers!" I'm honored that you would use it!
Thanks Yvonne...compliments from you have always made my day!!

[crafterwannabe]

50th Wedding Anniversary Favor Ideas

Date Posted: 08:15:46 01/01/05 Sat
Author: Gail
Subject: Need favor ideas for 50th Wedding Anniversary Party

Goodmorning Ladies, "HAPPY NEW YEAR" to you all.
We are planning a 50th wedding anniversary party and I wanted to know if anyone had some clever and cute ideas for favors.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance to all.
(((((HUGS)))))
Gail


Replies:
[> Re: Need favor ideas for 50th Wedding Anniversary Party -- wilma, 23:35:11 01/04/05 Tue [1]

Go to archives 3 then go to "Angels I made for anniversary party". I think they are just real cute. Could use gold rings and ribbon. I forget who made them but she posted them so I bet she would not care if you use them.
I want to have a party just so I can make them!!! Good luck.


[> Re: Need favor ideas for 50th Wedding Anniversary Party -- kritterno1, 09:10:48 01/01/05 Sat [1]

What about a wallet sized copy of the bride & groom's wedding picture? Or the couple today?
A personalized poem about the couple printed up and rolled ina litttle scroll
Roses from Hershey kisses
Plastic champagne glasses with confetti or kisses


[> Re: Need favor ideas for 50th Wedding Anniversary Party -- Janet, 16:34:38 01/05/05 Wed [1]

For my parent's 50th we purchased packets of marigold (for the GOLDEN anniversary) seeds and put labels on them with the following: (don't remember where I got this)

"It makes us so happy to have you with us to celebrate our golden anniversary. We hope you'll take this small souvenir and plant the seeds. As they grow and bloom, we hope you'll remember us and this happy day."
Then put my parent's names and their anniversary date.

This was really inexpensive but we thought it was a GREAT idea.


[> Re: Need favor ideas for 50th Wedding Anniversary Party -- Calico, 17:52:42 01/07/05 Fri [1]

These favors were on the tables at the 50th wedding anniversary of my M and FIL.
White and burgandy colored lace gathered, white and burgandy roses with gold bows attached with glue.

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[> Re: Need favor ideas for 50th Wedding Anniversary Party -- Gail, 16:17:35 01/09/05 Sun [1]

Thank you everyone for your help and suggestions. They are deeply appreciated.
Calico, your favors were cute.
Now I have to see if my sister wants to add a little color.
Thanks
(((((HUGS))))
Gail